i'm very frustrated now. the title says it all. let me explain my scenario, tell you how i found out the problem and give you the suggested workaround from apple.
the setup
i have a few phones laying around, and being the gadget geek i am, i do have an iphone that i've been using lately. my setup consists of syncing my iphone to my pc laptop for contacts/calendering and to my macbook for music/photos/movies/podcasts. it is a simple setup really, and allows me to keep my work machine for work (i don't have music or anything on my work machine) and...